What is teen dating violence?
Teen dating violence is a pattern of abusive behaviors used to exert power and control over a dating partner. Abuse can cause injury and even death but it doesn't have to be physical. It can take many different forms including threats, constant text messaging or instant messaging, insults, isolation from family and friends, sexual abuse name-calling, emotional abuse and controlling a partner's behavior and appearance. It can happen to anyone, at any age, no matter what their race, religion, sexual orientation, level of education or economic background may be.
What are the warning signs?
It can be difficult to tell the difference between a healthy, unhealthy and abusive relationship. While there are many warning signs of abuse, here are ten of the most common to look for:
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Checking your cell phone or email without permission.
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Constant put-downs.
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Extreme jealousy or insecurity.
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Explosive temper.
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Isolating you from family or friends.
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Making false accusations.
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Mood swings.
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Physically hurting you in any way.
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Possessiveness.
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Telling you what to do.
It's important to remember that no two relationships are the same and these behaviors occur across what is referred to as the "Relationship Spectrum." If you or someone you know sees the warning signs in their relationship, help is available. Click here to redirect to the "Love Is Not Abuse" website, which offers resources for parents and teens.